It can be intimidating to use a dildo for the first time, especially if you’ve never used a sex toy before, but it doesn’t have to be stressful! I remember one of my first times – it was thrilling and it helped me explore my own pleasure in a whole new way.
To get started, you need to have the right supplies. Make sure you shop for a dildo that’s made of a body-safe non-porous material like silicone, stainless steel, or glass, and never use a toy that’s made of jelly, plastic, or rubber as these can contain toxic chemicals.
Once you’ve got your dildo, take some time to get familiar with it. Pick it up, inspect it, and examine it. You don’t even have to put it inside you yet – just take a few moments to feel it! It can be helpful to start by using your dildo alone so that you can get to know it without any extra pressure.
Unlock your own sexual power with these steps:
1. Get to know the basics. Brush up on anatomy and read up on different sex toy materials so that you are fully informed when you go to the store and make your purchase.
2. Find the right dildo. Read reviews, compare prices, and make sure you select a body-safe and non-porous model.
3. Experiment and explore. Take some time to explore the dildo alone. Don’t feel rushed to insert it- just get a sense of its shape and texture.
4. Create the right atmosphere. Set the mood by lighting some candles, playing some music, and allowing yourself to get comfortable in your own skin.
5. Start solo. Just like you can explore your body first without a partner, it’s a great idea to explore with your sex toy the same way.
6. Add lube. Dildos tend to be stiffer than body parts, so you’ll want to make sure you use enough lube to keep all your erogenous zones nice and slippery.
7. Take it one step at a time. You don’t have to rush, and penetration doesn’t have to be the end game. Move slowly and take your own pace.
To keep things interesting, you can also experiment with different types of lubes, such as warming or flavored varieties. Another great way to mix things up is to introduce a new sex toy into the mix. Whether it’s a clitoral or anal stimulator, a prostate massager, or a vibrator, introducing a new toy into your playtime can really take it to the next level.
Once you start to feel comfortable using your dildo solo, you can start to incorporate a partner into your playtime. If you’re feeling a bit shy or intimidated, why not get your partner involved and let them help you find the best way to use the toy for you?
You don’t have to dive right in and start using your dildo in front of your partner. Instead, start off by touching and kissing each other, and then start to bring in the dildo. From there you can start to explore different techniques and figure out the best way to get pleasure together. A great tip for including partners is to use a wearable dildo that you both get to control. That way you can share the experience and explore together.
Now that you’ve got a handle on the basics, why not start to get creative? Introduce a blindfold or even a harness for extra pleasure. Don’t worry about making a mistake- just let go, relax, and have fun!
Using a dildo for the first time doesn’t have to be nerve-wracking. I remember feeling a little intimidated at first, but once I got comfortable it was an incredibly empowering experience. No matter how you choose to use it, don’t forget to enjoy the journey and explore your own pleasure.
If you’re feeling daring, why not take a trip to your local sex store to pick out a few new toys? Don’t worry if you feel a bit overwhelmed- the staff are always friendly and knowledgeable and can help you find the best toy to satisfy your needs.
To increase the sensations of your orgasm, consider investing in a vibrator. With a variety of speeds and settings, you can make sure you find the perfect combination of power and pleasure. Or, to really treat yourself, explore the world of luxury and high-end sex toys. After all, there’s nothing wrong with treating yourself every now and then.
Once you’re comfortable in your own skin, why not bring your dildo to the bedroom with your partner? With a little exploration and experimentation, you and your partner can learn how to use the dildo in tandem to get optimum pleasure.
Why not take your sexual exploration one step further and use a strap-on dildo? Strap-on sex provides more power and control for both you and your partner, and can help to explore new positions and techniques.
If you’re wanting to add a whole other level of pleasure to your experience, try exploring the world of BDSM. Bondage can be an incredibly powerful and liberating experience, and can really bring excitement and fun to your playtime.
There’s no one ‘right way’ to use a dildo, so it’s important to experiment and find the techniques that work best for you. Get creative and explore what turns you on, and don’t be afraid to experiment and take it to the next level. Most importantly, enjoy the journey and have fun!